{"id":4356,"date":"2020-02-28T18:36:35","date_gmt":"2020-02-28T18:36:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/isabelbarrosarchitects.ie\/blog\/?p=4356"},"modified":"2020-02-28T18:36:42","modified_gmt":"2020-02-28T18:36:42","slug":"when-did-you-stop-thanking","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/isabelbarrosarchitects.ie\/blog\/when-did-you-stop-thanking\/","title":{"rendered":"When Did You Stop Thanking?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Last week we received a very nice email from a young couple that came for an initial meeting. All it took them were two lines and maybe one minute of writing. How easy is that?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We spend a lot of time with initial meetings, if the meeting needs to be outside of the office it could take up to 3 hours including travel and meeting time. We then prepare a fee proposal, it could take up to 2 hours to have it ready and sent off. It is a lot of hours that we offer free of charge.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The initial meetings are often very informative and an eye opener particularly for young couples unaware of the complexity of the construction process. It is nearly a master class where at the end their brains hurt with so much information. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>The young couple sent an email thanking for taking the time to meet with them.<\/strong> This simple gesture is very unusual and it was highly appreciated. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We have lost the count of how many times we have sent a fee proposal and never heard back from people. It hurts. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When did you stop thanking people? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you ask someone to prepare a quotation for you at least acknowledge the time they spent taking care of you and say THANK YOU. Never mind if you have no intention of proceeding.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Follow the example of the young couple &#8211; It is nice to be nice, it is essential to be kind and grateful.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here are a few sentences you can use. They are all free and quick to execute:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Thank you for taking the time to meet with us and prepare a fee proposal. We will review and get back to you ASAP.<\/li><li>Thank you for coming from so far in such a wet and miserable day. We have studied your fee proposal but we feel this is not the right time to proceed.<\/li><li>Thank you for your fee proposal but we have decided to appoint a different person.<\/li><li>Thank you for your quotation, we will ask for a pay rise and proceed as soon as we get it.  \ud83d\ude00<\/li><\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Last week we received a very nice email from a young couple that came for an initial meeting. 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